A Successful Life Coach Relationship happens when clients achieve their “Coachable Goals”
The reason you engage a life coach is to achieve your “Coachable Goals” through greatly improving your self awareness. The reason a life coach coaches you is to make sure you attain true self awareness so you will achieve your “Coachable Goals.” The life coaching process is all about you completing your goals on your terms, at your pace, and on your agenda. A life coach’s job is to coach himself or herself out of a job.
What Is A Coachable Goal?
A “Coachable Goal” is a future place you want to be that requires you to grow and improve as a person to achieve it. You the client choose your future place. You will greatly improve your self awareness through being coached.
For example:
You might choose to become a far more successful and productive business owner. You might choose to become a far more successful and productive leader or manager. You might choose to discover and transition into your ideal income position so you can go to play every day and call it work. Some people call this figuring out what they really want to do that allows them to enjoy and prosper in their new position. You might choose to discover and get life balance where you enjoy and thrive in all three of your lives, your work life, your personal life and your family life simultaneously without guilt, without internal conflicts and without stress. You will be traveling from you present place in life to the future places in life that you choose, and with coaching you will reach your chosen future destinations.
Successful Life Coach Relationship
Life Coaching Is Like Flying An Airplane.
A successful flight only occurs when you can safely walk away from your chosen destination. You, the client will be the pilot of the coaching relationship, flying from where you are in life to your chosen future life and career destinations. You the client (pilot) will have all of the controls to go wherever you want. Your coach will be your co-pilot and navigator, but will have no controls. But, your co-pilot coach will keep you on track to make sure you successfully reach your chosen destination.
How piloting an airplane is similar to a successful life coaching relationship
The majority of energy in coaching is spent at the beginning and the eventual completion of your goals. Just like the majority of the energy in flying is spent on taking off and landing.
The life coaching relationship always takes you forward enough to maintain momentum to continue your successful journey. Just like you must always fly the airplane forward over the minimum (Stall) speed, to keep from stalling and crashing.
With life coaching you do not look back. An airplane has no rear view mirror to look back.
With life coaching you do not back up. An airplane has no reverse.
The life coaching relationship is only considered to be successful when you accomplish your future based destination “Coachable Goals.” The airplane flight is deemed to be successful when you safely land at your chosen destination.
Getting Closer to Your “Coachable Goals” Does Not Create a Successful Life Coach Relationship.
Just like getting closer to you chosen flight destination does not designate successful flight. For example, if you choose to fly from New York to Honolulu, but the plane stops flying in route and lands at Kansas City, then your flight was not complete. Yes, you got closer, but the flight was not successful. You paid to land in Honolulu, not Kansas City.
Likewise, if you only get closer to your “Coachable Goals” you do not have a successful life coach relationship. You hire your life coach to reach your “Coachable Goals” and you pay for an airplane flight to actually reach your chosen destinations. Coming up short and settling for less in either flying or coaching is not in your best interest.
The Life Coaching Industry Average Success Rate is about 10% to 15%
The main reason the Life Coaching Industry has such a poor reputation is because the average failure rate is between 85% to 90%. These rates are Unacceptable at The Coach Connection.
Our Mission and Promise to You:
Our Selected Clients WILL Achieve their Chosen “Coachable Goals” through attaining self awareness Faster, at Less Cost, & More Completely than any place in the English Speaking World.
TCC provides 4 very important Money-Back Guarantees to fulfill our promises. So TCC clients have generated successful life coaching relationships at an average rate of 96% since 2001
Blog Author
Brought to you by Bill Dueease Founder/President of The Coach Connection who struggled through 27 coaches in 6 months to find the good life coach who was right for him. And find him he did. Bill is not a coach, but a thrilled coachee. Through the remarkable life coaching self-awareness process, he discovered his passion and talents were to create and operate his own business so that others would be able to find and select their ideal life coach with only one call and avoid all the pitfalls he encountered. He started TCC in 2001 to fulfill all his goals and personal requirements and never looked back. He shares his full story in his online book entitled “Go To Play Every Day and call it work” which he has been enjoying since 2001.
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