Being Personally Authentic Means Being True to Oneself
Representing one’s values, beliefs and priorities honestly. Sometimes referred to as “Personal Authenticity.”
The 2 key ingredients to becoming personally authentic
First, you want to attain clear self awareness to Know your true self explicitly. Otherwise, you will be representing someone other than you believing you are characterizing your true self. To attain self awareness, you will want to discover your buried passions, beliefs and values, your self-imposed obstacles (the things you genuinely dislike doing) your clear priority rating scale and your many hidden talents.
- A. Yet most people have a very muddled and confusing understanding of their true self awareness. It has been said that the “Greatest Mystery in the World is Ourselves” Hence one reason people struggle to be personally authentic is because they rarely KNOW who they really are.
- B. Discovering clear self awareness has traditionally been very difficult because people cannot see themselves. So they are relegated to developing an imagined (read inaccurate) self, created by the forces, and descriptions imposed on us by others. Unfortunately, most people THINK their outside influenced imagined self in real. Not knowing the truth and not knowing what they do not know about themselves.
- C. There is a relatively new process that was designed to help you attain self awareness. Life Coaching has proven to be very successful at revealing clients to themselves (Like a mirror does), when done right.
Secondly, You will want to honestly and consistently share or represent your authentic self to others. This is a choice. You will want to act and project your authentic self, frequently being contrary to what others may think or want from you. It takes character and a strong desire to consistently perform and reveal your inner authentic self. The consequences of doing so might appear to be harmful or unpleasant. Yet being authentic is NOT being selfish. You are comfortable in your own skin, you know it, and are willing to accept the results, because you normally choose to.
Being personally authentic generates remarkable benefits
You practically eliminate personal stress. Internal tensions and anxiety virtually disappear. Your health will blossom due to lack of stress.
You will be very productive. Naturally, generating valuable results.You will not be encumbered by conflicting forces. You will live in the flow. You will develop the conditions that allow you to effortlessly be you. You will transition from feeling stuck in life to create the life that allows you to fulfill your passions and priorities, follow your beliefs and values, maximize your talents and avoid as many of your self-imposed obstacles as you can.
You will become a treasured contributor to the world through the positive results you produce. Doing so will attract the respect and admiration of others.
You will enjoy life more. You will tap into your true sense of humor, and maximize your powerful intuition. Your humility and clear priorities will deflect outside pressures. You will prosper in a more confident, relaxed, worry free life.
You will attract and build strong loving relationships. You will know whom you care for, whom you love, and you will develop clear desires to interact in positive ways. Since you are so grounded, you will want to create a mutually beneficial relationship. You will have little desire to impose yourself on others to their detriment. You become a very valuable caring friend and loved one to those people whom you attract. The essence of the law of attraction.
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Brought to you by Bill Dueease Founder/President of The Coach Connection (TCC) who struggled for 14 years using the Trial and Error method to figure out what he wanted to do when he grew up and failed over 10 times. After an exhausting search through 27 coaches in six months, he connected with the right career coach for him. Through the remarkable career coaching self-awareness process, he discovered his passion and talents were to create and operate his own business to assist others to find and select their ideal life coach with only one call to also maximize their incredible benefits from being coached. TCC has been successfully fulfilling Bill’s mission assisting clients since 2001. He shares his full story in his online book entitled “Go To Play Every Day and call it work”
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